My Sister Nez

This last two weeks ago may younger sister got sick of high fever... I sponge her her whole body with a cold small towel  so that the fever might go down. I told my myself  it just a simple fever so i bought her more fruits and drink vita pluz but no improvement.. Since  then she cant walked.I thought  to brought her in the  hospital. First she needs to go the laboratory for blood test. But my suspect was  acute typhoid the doctor told me she laboratory in typhoid is negative... Next day I cant carry her going to the bath for urine ..  I  told to myself  my sister nez to confined in the hospital public but in the public hospital in the  Calamba  has no isolation room... We need  bring her to the private hospital... Since then our vehicles just left so we have no other choices to contact our barangay  kaptain in Mapagong Bitoy Villanueva.

My problem  when we arrived in the hospital I dont have any money for downpayment... My cousin helped me lending her money ten thousand pesos... My mind  was all blackout totally shut down... in the public hospital, the doctor diagnose Nez that she a meningdiatis means illness has a fever goes up in the  brain... I thought  of losing her... Another chances of life in the part  of sister... Wow that a miracle ,  i thought going die in the private hospital since there is a isolation room . She  was diagnose Hepa A and Urinalysis Tract infection...I thinking she a always  drinking softdrinks and some street foods so she got those illness.

      Then some expenses coming up expenses from the private hospital... We expenses 56 thousand plus... At first my cousin Mary Grace gave 10 thousand, my tita cora gave ten thousands, then my sister eliza 25 Thousand, 6 thousand. then my friend jheng help me taking care of my sister nez and she brought some foods and mineral water....and she lend me her almost thousand pesos and mam peralta lend 5 thousand and my kumare melai lend me 3 thousand... imagine to cope up the 10 thousand bills in the hospital if i cant pay it i will make my collateralize this my small netbook... so thnakful i dont make collateralize... 

Here the pictures ;

The expensive dextrose... since i cant pay the hospital i buy the dextrose...

Names of the doctors Dr Murrilio is a neuropsychiatric and Dr Restuto is liver doctor residence doctor. 

Note dr restuto has no heart for his patient imagine dont have any money he still want us stay longer paid more... 

This is my father... got irritated

This video taken when i want to have a picture that there is a latest newspaper manila Bulletin.. This is a requirement the pensioner is still alive so i have  to take him a picture.. with update newspaper....

You can see , being alcoholic person u can see the skin is dry and he can easily irritated if things are done slowly and cant be wait..

I should be more patient on him and more understanding... I know how hard to be taking of them... seeing them that they alive ur life is already complete and satisfied even thought how hard  is it...

First, He is my father no one can understand him only his own children...Give him more time to cure himself and  pray over him... I know that is the best cures that i know..  is  the miracle coming  from God...

There are i want to give with him but I pity on him... Not pity that I rely on him and i love him so much...

I hope someday he will be ok and i will take care of him...

I LOVE YOU DADDY..... I MISSED YOU SO MUCH ... PLEASE GET WELL SOON..

My sister Ninez had a Schizopremia

When we were  a little girl, we dont know what happen to our mother... They told some bad spirit that enters in the body of mom and we ignore these things that happen to our mom... Then later our  classmates and my playmates told my mother is crazy person keep on laughing without nothing happen ... making hallucinate things... which not exist... I keep on asking Why these things happen to us... and why God in the beginning gives things burdened... When these things pass by... we think our studies and our career . I passed a Licensure Examanition For a Teacher.  I am now a permanent teacher in a certain public elementary...in calamba city
Our second younger sister, got finished her two degree course which AB Psychology and a teacher she also passed the exam... and she a units in Masteral Degree... Since then she didnt want stay in teaching.. so got married.. to a british man and stay for 8 years in United Kingdoms.. She had a son..
Our Youngest sister, had excellent in her exam..Out of her schoolmate in Science High School in Zamboanga City. She is  the only one who got the scholarship in Department of Science and Technology. During her high school she the champion in chess in our city.. And in college, she was varsity of the school chess... so our father was proud of her...
Since then she got in the fraternity and got involve in drugs, taking marijuana and I dont things she takes.. because influence of her barkadas. So got  that sickness of schizo... At first, I dont know what kind of illness , I thought I will pray in God hard she will cure... But things happen it more money, attention and understand of her. Dont give more stress... Give more inspiration. As a family you should be happy what changes she has now..,She can be more productive like anybody else.. like cooking , cleaning, Typing a test paper in school.. Thing like that...But some people dont understand, they think the illness expensive and thinking those medicines should take in because they dont be more dependable on the medicines. It need more pray.
My sister nez , if she wants to drink more softdrink.. right now because existing stress in her mind if she drinks the big liter of soft drinks makes satisfied her needs and makes her happy... But now she sick of UTI.. according to her laboratory result she is poor in potassium. She cant walk. Most of the tym she vomit the food she takes..I dont know what to do I dont have enough... I afraid that i have no money buying medicines for schizo and for the doctors fees. Now her urine is full blood and her sight is blurred..   I have to do something about her condition.. Please Lord help me and my sister nez....

Napoleon A. Chavez is the best father , I m proud with...

 He is my father who I am proud for..Because when I was small he was the take care of us.. Even my mother has symptom of schizophrenic... He is trying hard his three daughters to grow normal like other families has.. When he was young he was worked in the Air Force military based in Zamboanga. City. After his work, he had to cook for his family and change the diaper when we are little. I know what my father plans for us when we are little he wants to finish our degree and had a good job and successful career.


                                                             He got retired when he was age 40 + , i think... he when to abroad for two years... I was then grade one and two...

After in Saudi, He planned to go in States with his elder sister.. Tita Luz.
But  a tragic incident that happened my mother got illness that was schizo... so my father  has to stay with us... and take care of three of us and my mother had bring her in the ospital for medication... she so violent.  Most time I saw some violent incident done with mother with my father.. My mother always quarrel my father... and my father is always patient with her...Hoping that my mother will be cured someday...

One day we finished our college degree.. and my younger sister got married to a bristish citizen and my youngest sister involves in drugs and got the illness of schizophrenic. My father becomes more stressed and become drunkard person... At first I don't understand him why is like.. that.. I thought I can fix this kind  of problem. And so I pray hard, I go to church and pray a rosary for my family...

That a things happen with our family... what a destiny .... to be happened.
 Now, My father is blaming all the lucks in his life, one is the illness of my mother.
Second my uncle junior... because of him all of planned was not granted..
and last the father of my mother he always went to our house to get money from mother... from the salary of father..

My last picture with my mom...

       

I LOVE  MY FAMILY




This picture taken when i go home in zamboanga city during April , 2012 which i have  to check my sister situation...  At left side is my cousin Ethleyn Apron related my mother side, next my sister Ninez she has an illness of schizo , then me that i am holding my father got a accident in riding a jeepney because of his being alcoholic. He lost his balance when he got off in the jeepney next my beautiful mom... which i missed so much she now in heaven ... last my uncle the father of Ethleyn.

When I  see my mom ... she always tell me she wants to go with me in Laguna and I promise when i have my own house i will go with me... since then she  gone my promise being broken... because the accident it should be prevented if my sister in uk listen to me... I told  to my relatives that the illness of nez is different... She needs these medication badly. She will be ok if she drinks this medicines but this medicines are too expensive. If only we can help each other my sister and the pension my father... I know it very hard to explain to my relatives... I always ignore and give importance  of the  situation my sister... They always tell me i had to pray n lang to cure my sister ... They don't understand praying is good if there an action... Schizo is not a wound that can cure... It is in the mind of a person full stress... which cannot to be control or calm down...

Living with a schizophremia

Living with a schizo, at first you don't know how  and understand them because you don't know what in their mind. Most of times they talk their selves, laugh without nothing happens, they having hallucination and keeping on walking with nowhere to go.... I am thinking what makes them more sick because most of time they none of talking and laughing keeping on walking, what gives them more stress, easy to say we can rely GOD but it different in actions... We cant do anything just pray but we can see them they don't hurt anybody or their selves...

There are times I am afraid to introduce to people that i have a sister and a mother who has schizo (baliw) they think that i am one will become like them...This time I have to accept them..what they are now. But I'm  keep on praying that i will not be one  of them.... My problem is my work it bothered me so much  Im teaching ... There are times I have to make an absences so that I can take care of my sister...

All the problems that encountered are all passed by like a wind means i survive...just dont think deeper and pray with our Lord mighty God.